Stress Relief: 10 Ways to Relieve Stress

Relaxation techniques: Learn how to relax and reduce stress

PUBLISHED: AUGUST 13, 2013  |  BY JENNY EVERETT

Summer used to signal a time for a well-deserved reprieve from life's rigors. Par for the season: lazy afternoons at the beach, abbreviated workdays, and long breaks away from the daily grind. This year, though, you might be working extra hours and staying closer to home to save some cash. But there are still plenty ways to relax and rejuvenate.

The key is to learn how to "disengage" from daily stress. "When you're taking fewer days off, it's especially important to find ways to unwind during the downtime you do have," says Katherine Muller, Psy. D., director of the cognitive behavior therapy program at Montefiore Medical Center in New York City.

Going nonstop day in and day out takes a toll on the entire body, says Dov Eden, Ph. D., one of the world's leading vacation researchers and a professor at Tel Aviv University. But, Eden says, learning to apply a vacation mentality to your daily life can put you back on your game.
These tips will help you reach a state of blissful detachment, no matter where you are or how many days off you can swing.
Experts say we've become so obsessed with always being on that we've lost the ability to turn ourselves off. And that can pile on stress.
In the same way a pre-bedtime ritual puts you in the mood for sleep, a pre-downtime routine helps you get in the mood for relaxation.
Mother Nature may be the ultimate antidepressant. Exposure to natural light can increase levels of the mood-lifting chemical serotonin, says NYU psychologist Robert Reiner, Ph. D.
When the weekend finally arrives, sometimes you're so determined to have fun that you try to cram in 147 things before Monday.
If you can't afford a full week away from work, put in for a few Mondays or Fridays instead. Experts say that taking mini-vacations can sufficiently recharge your batteries. (And since you'll be missing only one day of work, you won't have overflowing voicemail or e-mail to contend with when you return.)
To sufficiently drag your brain out of the work gutter, you need to reset it. The best way to do that is through what psychologists call escapism. That means getting out of the house and experiencing something that transports the mind—think movies, concerts, art exhibitions, comedy shows, sporting events.
Keeping your hands busy settles your mind. Just ask any knitter. Summertime activities that require repetitive motion, such as barbecuing (place burger on grill, flip, serve, repeat) or gardening (dig, plant, water, repeat), can lower blood pressure and heart rate.
"Once stress escalates, it becomes tougher to let it go," says anxiety expert and clinical psychologist Tamar Chansky, Ph. D. "The secret is to counteract it as soon as it hits." Luckily, it doesn't take long to feel zen again. Next time you feel overwhelmed, try one of these 60-second tension busters:

Squashing stress isn't just good for your sanity—it's good for your physical health. Stress has been linked to every major illness in the U. S., including heart disease, cancer, and depression. 

Squashing stress isn't just good for your sanity—it's good for your physical health. Stress has been linked to every major illness in the U. S., including heart disease, cancer, and depression.

Going nonstop day in and day out takes a toll on the entire body, says Dov Eden, Ph. D., one of the world's leading vacation researchers and a professor at Tel Aviv University. But, Eden says, learning to apply a vacation mentality to your daily life can put you back on your game.

These tips will help you reach a state of blissful detachment, no matter where you are or how many days off you can swing.

Unplug Yourself from the Office

More than a third of the participants in a recent study, published in the journal Heart, felt frazzled by a sense of obligation to respond immediately to their constant barrage of e-mails. Women also feel more pressure to hit REPLY. But "just because you own a PDA doesn't mean it has to be on all the time," Muller says. "Each night, block 30 minutes for e-mail. When the time's up, turn off the device and put it out of sight."

Just don't schedule your catch-up session right before bed. "Hitting the sack with work on your brain makes it tough to transition into sleep mode, so put the kibosh on all business-related correspondence at least an hour before turning in," she says.

Create a Chill-Out Routine

As soon as you arrive home, shed whatever reminds you of work: stash your bag out of sight and kick off your heels. "Changing your outfit can change your mindset instantly," Muller says.

Next, do something that offers a change of pace, recommends Susan J. Nathan, Ph. D., a health psychologist in Laguna Hills, California. "If you're a desk drone, head outside for a run or a swim; if you're on your feet all day, ease into a warm bath. Soon you'll feel yourself mentally drifting away from what stresses you out."

Take It Outside

Research also shows that spending time outdoors is hugely important in preventing depression. "The expansive space, colors, and fresh air can all help your brain disengage," Nathan says.

She recommends trading your gym routine for outdoor exercise or eating lunch al fresco: "Try to notice every detail using all your senses—the shapes in the clouds, the taste of your lemonade, the warm breeze on your back."

Find a Balance Between Rest and Activity

But a jam-packed weekend can actually leave you more exhausted and stressed. "Even enjoyable activities can wear you out if you shoehorn too many into one weekend," Muller says.

She recommends carving out a half-hour each day just to chill. Try using the time to read (a study from England's University of Sussex found that reading can slash stress by 68 percent), listen to music (61 percent), or sip a cup of tea (54 percent).

Don't flip on the tube unless there's a show you really want to see. "Even though watching TV seems like a great way to zone out, mindless surfing actually stimulates your nervous system and thwarts your ability to relax," Nathan says.

Plan Long Weekends

"When we examined how vacation length affects stress levels, we found that taking several short breaks may be more beneficial than taking one long one," Eden says.

To get the most out of an extended weekend, you still have to seek out a slight change of scenery. "Physical separation can lead to mental separation from stressors," Nathan says. Check into a nearby B&B for a night, go on an all-day hike, or even just visit a new restaurant across town.

Become an Escape Artist

"An activity like watching a movie is the metaphorical equivalent of going to Hawaii," says James Amirkhan, Ph. D., a psychology professor at California State University Long Beach. "It lets you mentally check out and remove yourself from the problems in your everyday life."

If thoughts of the office intrude while you're enjoying a baseball game or a summer blockbuster, just briefly acknowledge them and then refocus, Muller says. Redirect your attention toward the sound of the crowd, the taste of your hot dog, or the way Ryan Reynolds's eyes twinkle when he smiles.

Get a Hobby

"Repetitive motion works like a meditation mantra: It shuts down the body's fight-or-flight response," Reiner says.

You zero in on the task in front of you, taking your mind off looming deadlines and other upcoming events. For optimal chill-out effect, keep your sessions brief; Reiner advises 20-minute spurts. "The mind-soothing benefits of repetition dwindle the longer you participate in the activity," he says.

Stop Tension In Its Tracks

1. Go on a tear. Ripping paper to shreds offers serious relief. "Hearing a satisfying rip gives you something to focus on, and the physical act of shredding something without causing real harm releases tension," Chansky says.

2. Share a joke. Cracking up increases feel-good endorphins and decreases stress hormones such as cortisol and epinephrine, say researchers at the University of California, Irvine.

3. Just breathe. Achieve inner peace with this quick breathing exercise from Judith Orloff, M. D., assistant clinical professor of psychiatry at UCLA. First, conjure up an image that makes you feel tranquil, then close your eyes and take eight deep breaths, paying attention to the air filling your chest. Exhale with a sigh, imagining all the tension in your body evaporating. "Slow breaths help reduce stress hormones in the body," Orloff says. And a calmer you is a happier you.

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